6 Signs Your Kindness is Used Against You

Do suspect that someone may be taking advantage of your kindness? If this thought hasn’t crossed your mind, it’s still better to stay informed and secure with yourself, rather than feeling doubtful of a questionable or unsafe relationship with someone. Here are some ways that someone may be using your goodwill against you. DISCLAIMER: Keep in mind that this video serves as general guidance purely for educational purposes, and is not to be taken as a substitute for professional advice or assistance. Writer: Aditi N. Script Editor: Vanessa Tao Script Manager: Kelly Soong VO: Amanda Silvera Animator: IG @AwesomeKickArt YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong References: Lee, K. (n.d.). Be Aware of These 8 Signs Of A Manipulator. Lifehack. Retrieved May 20, 2021, from www.lifehack.org/347040/aware-these-8-signs-manipulator Ni, P., M.S.B.A. (2015, October 11). 14 Signs of Psychological and Emotional Manipulation. Psychology Today. Retrieved May 20, 2021, from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201510/14-signs-psychological-and-emotional-manipulation Shortsleeve, C. (2018, October 16). How to Tell If Someone Is Manipulating You—And What to Do About It. Time. Retrieved May 20, 2021, from time.com/5411624/how-to-tell-if-being-manipulated/ Simon, C. J., Ph.D. (2012, April 10). Who’s Judgmental? Five Key Symptoms. Psychology Today. Retrieved May 20, 2021, from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/bringing-sex-focus/201204/whos-judmental-five-key-symptoms Types of Abuse. (n.d.). National Domestic Abuse Hotline. Retrieved May 20, 2021, from www.thehotline.org/resources/types-of-abuse/ Villines, Z. (2019, September 17). Red Flags: Are You Being Emotionally Manipulated? Good Therapy. Retrieved May 20, 2021, from www.goodtherapy.org/blog/red-flags-are-you-being-emotionally-manipulated-0917197 Transcript: alugha Click here to see more videos: https://alugha.com/Psych2Go

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