当你想起自己的童年时,你会有什么感觉?你认为这是一个快乐的地方,你愿意付出任何代价回去,还是宁愿假装它从未发生过?不幸的是,,有时父母并不是最了解情况的人,他们在抚养孩子时做出的选择会让孩子受到创伤。以下是父母犯下的五个可能会使孩子受到伤害的错误。
免责声明:本视频不是为了攻击任何人,而是为了了解这一现象并提高人们对该主题的认识。有时候,父母犯的这些错误确实是无心之举,是偶然的错误,是因为他们真的不太了解,但有时可能是由于不够关心而造成的。
作者:Stela Kosic
剧本编辑:Vanessa Tao
剧本经理:Kelly Soong
英语配音:Amanda Silvera
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