8 Thoughts That Destroy Relationships

Did you know that sometimes it is our thoughts, not behaviors that hurt relationships? Psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein says it is important for partners to learn to listen by reflecting on the NEEDS of their romantic partner. This could be things like "I know you need this from me" or "I hear what you say when you say.." etc. Listening skills can go a long way. Writer: Kayleigh H. Script Editor: Rida Batool Script Manager: Kelly Soong VO: Amanda Silvera Animator: Sam Rain YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong Kearns, Gardiner and Marshall. “Innovation in PhD completion: the hardy shall succeed (and be happy!)” Higher Education and Research Development Journal via TANDofLine. 2008(1): 27. Web. Feb. 2018. Sansone, Elliott, and Wiederman. “A Survey of Medically Self–Sabotaging Behaviors Among Perpetrators of Partner Violence.” PrimeCare Companion through PUBMED. 2015(3): 17. Web. Feb. 2018. Fitch. “Improving not-for-profit EMS. Six self–sabotaging traps to avoid.” JEMS via PUBMED for MEDLINE. 2005(5): 30. Web. Feb. 2018. Transcript: alugha Click here to see more videos: https://alugha.com/Psych2Go

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